Community Support is Key

The issue of how to help others without interfering or being to intrusive is an interesting one. Remember back when we used to know our neighbors, and run into friends at the grocery store or the restaurant on a regular basis. This still exists in some communities but, sadly, it has disappeared in many. This may be part of the reason why we often find it hard to help people who live right next door to us.

Whether it is creationism, evolution or alien inhabitation, continued human existence depends on procreation and procreation means children in our society. It also means it is up to us to protect and nurture those children so that we may continue to prosper as a human race. In some instances, that protection could mean placing a call to social services or the police department when you see someone in immediate danger. However, in other cases it could be doing something as simple as walking up to a frustrated parent, introducing yourself and seeing if there is anything you can do to help.

I remember a commercial not too long ago that showed a woman by her car with a grocery cart screaming at a crying child. A stranger walked up and made a simple gesture of kindness. It made a difference! I know it always looks easier on TV but it really can be that simple. For example, when you are disturbed by a screaming child in a restaurant, instead of complaining, you might suggest that the wait staff bring them some crayons or crackers to appease the child. You might even try making funny faces at the child to distract them. Most of you reading this blog are parents yourselves - you know that often a slight interruption can turn off even the biggest of tantrums.

We have all strayed too far from just being neighborly. Next time you find yourself disturbed by someone else's actions, be proactive. Take a few moments out of your life to help an angered parent, an upset child or even a frustrated shopper. You may find this to be far more satisfying than complaining to others about what you witnessed or even calling the authorities and wondering what will happen next.

We all need each other! Help someone else and it is bound to come back to help you later!