Washington Post Mommy Guilt- Update
Aviva and I have been interviewed quite a bit over the past two years. This is the first time we have had a negative experience with a journalist. All of our interactions with the media have been overwhelmingly postitive, until this week.
Have I ever been interviewed for a story and edited out? Absolutely.
Is it disappointing when it happens? Yes.
Does it make me angry? No.
Do I take it personally? No.
It happens all the time to a lot of people, not just me, every single day at magazines, newspapers and television media outlets around the world. Totally common. Absolutely expected. Not a shock by any means.
What was different this time? The reporter's conduct.
I sent a letter to the Executive Editor of the Washington Post, the reporter's managing editor and the reporter via express mail. In that letter I expressed my concern regarding the unprofessional conduct of their reporter Donna St. George. According to the US Post office the letters were delivered between 9AM and Noon yesterday.
My expectation would be that, maybe next week, I would receive a call from someone at the Post who would express, "We are sorry you were treated so unprofessionally by our employee. We have spoken to Ms. St George about her unprofessional conduct. Please know this is one individual and her behavior is not representative of how we expect our employees to conduct themselves nor is it to be understood that this is behavior we condone at the Washington Post. We apologize."
Now if that happened? My faith would be renewed regarding the integrity of the Washington Post. And how would I respond should I receive that call from the Washington Post?
"Thank you very much for calling, I accept your apology."
I was reared by my parents to be polite and gracious. Am I am dying breed? No.
I am teaching my sons.
At least the breed is one generation away from possible extinction.

















9 Comments:
Well said. I've never been a reporter, but I imagine that they don't spend that much time worrying about whether their interview subjects might have been bothered by their behavior. I would be VERY surprised if you got any kind of response back from the reporter herself. I do hope you at least hear something, though.
Hi,
Just wanted to write that I stopped here and enjoyed your writing immensely.
Trisha
Elizabeth,
Ya know this is the first time in over 20 years of dealing with the media I have had an experience such as this one. I'm fairly confident my track record will pick right up again. Actually, I already have strong indication that it already has.
Trisha, thank you for your kind words about our writing. We hope you will come back and see us!
This article just ran in our paper in Ohio today.
I got to the end of the article and thought, "Hey,I know that name... she reads my blog."
I had no idea that you had written a book, or that this blog existed until today...so I am thankful to have seen your name mentioned in the article. (I am just getting the hang of this blogging stuff.)
I am, however, saddened to learn that the article wasn't what you had expected, and that they didn't hold to their word.
Sounds like you did everything you could do to clear the air...and you can walk away with your head held high.
Sadly, not all grown-ups have class.
I am thankful that the article took me to your blog....now I am anxious to read your book!
I will be surprised if you hear back.
But delighted if it happens.
Keep us informed.
WHAT? Beffers, do you mean to tell me I didn't grab an opportunity for free PR on your blog? I didn't even mention I had written a book or credit myself on your blog? I should call myself, ask myself why I behaved in such a manner, and then spend the next half hour yelling just because I can.
Gidge, if I hear anything back we will be able to test the theory of whether someone can actually be knocked down with a feather.
I will look for the article Beffers is referring to. Sounds like a frustrating experience. Do let us know if you hear anything from them.
By the way, I left you a little present over at my site.
A little present????? You left me a lovely honor! Thank you! Now I must hunt down our webmaster to install the button so everyone can see what you gave me!
Emily, truly, you are delightful to have thought of me for the Thinking Blogger Award! And if the rules did not prevent me from awarding it right back on you, I would in an instant! I will follow the rules and pay the honor forward!
I am adding you to my blog roll when I get back from vacation...my girls need to know where to go to get a reality check on all that guilt!
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