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Dec 19, 2007

Wednesday What Nots


These tips unofficially sponsored by the express lane at Target:

Met a mom in The Lane at Target who's child won't eat the end slices from a loaf of bread. The mom told me how awful she felt about throwing away the ends, "It's perfectly good to eat. My kids just won't do it!" I shared with her my own kids weren't big fans either, but what had worked for me is I spread the peanut butter (or whatever sandwich filler we're using) on what is technically the outside part of the end and then face it inward. Since only one side of the slice looks like the end, the other side of the slice looks like the rest of others in the loaf. So when the sandwich is assembled, my kids don't even notice they are eating the end slice. Maybe this might end some angst.

Met a dad in The Lane at Target. Dad was listening as Son Two asked, well actually begged, for candy. "Candy isn't on our list. We have all the items from our list. Candy is not on our list." The begging continued, and each time I repeated the same thing. No anger, no hostility, no harsh tone. Just matter-of-factly repeating, "It's not on our list." As the dad picked up his purchase he turned to me and said "I need to remember that one. It really seemed to work for you." Maybe it will work for you too, so feel free to add it to your own list when out shopping with your kids!



4 Comments:

At 11:01 PM, December 20, 2007, Blogger Carmen said...

Hey, I use that sandwich trick and the not on our list alllll the time!

 
At 12:37 PM, December 25, 2007, Blogger Kim Moldofsky said...

Sorry, my kids bust me every time I try that bread trick. I'll take a poke at the list item next time I manage to stick to my list ;-).

 
At 8:53 PM, December 25, 2007, Anonymous Meagan Francis said...

Heheh, I do this with the bread too but am only able to pass it by two of my four kids. Luckily, I LOVE the end pieces toasted so I save 'em for myself!

 
At 11:52 AM, January 03, 2008, Blogger Devra said...

I'm like you gals too, I have some things in my repetoire that work with both, some that only work with one and others I just have to wait for a different stage of development and try at a later date or possibly ditch.

 

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